Choosing a boutonnière for a wedding may seem like a small detail. Yet this little floral piece plays an essential role in the groom's elegance. Pinned to the left lapel of the jacket, the boutonnière draws the eye subtly and creates harmony with the bouquet, the décor and the overall mood of the wedding.
So how do you choose the ideal boutonnière for the groom? Size, colours, dried or fresh flowers, bohemian or modern style… Here is our atelier's guidance for an elegant, coherent choice.
Why is the boutonnière so important?
A wedding boutonnière is not simply a decorative accessory. It shapes the silhouette and balances the outfit. It also introduces a subtle floral touch without overwhelming the suit.
- It echoes the wedding theme
- It creates a visual link with the bridal bouquet
- It personalises the groom's outfit
- It elevates the photographs
Which boutonnière to choose for your wedding style?
Bohemian wedding
A bohemian wedding calls for natural materials and airy textures. Dried flowers are ideal for this style: lavender, blue thistle, fine grasses or eucalyptus.
Our Valensia Boutonnière – Lavender Purple & Blue Thistle perfectly illustrates this bohemian-chic spirit, with a delicate balance between soft purple and deep blue.
Country wedding
For a country wedding, opt for beige, wheat and ivory tones. A dried-flower boutonnière brings authenticity and natural softness, like our Blé d'Or Boutonnière – Country Beige | Dried Flowers
Elegant, modern wedding
A modern wedding calls for a structured composition, such as our Moody Boutonnière – terracotta & eucalyptus in dried flowers in a refined palette. The subtle contrast between lavender and blue thistle adds sophistication without excess.
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Our selection, straight from our atelier.
Dolce Vita wedding boutonnière
Sienna Boutonnière – Burgundy & Wheat | Dried Flowers
Blé d'Or Boutonnière – Country Beige | Dried Flowers
Valensia Boutonnière – Lavender Purple & Blue Thistle | Dried Flowers
Moody Boutonnière – terracotta & eucalyptus in dried flowers
Men's Wedding Boutonnière – Sage & Wheat
How to match the boutonnière to the groom's suit?
- Navy blue suit → lavender, blue thistle
- Beige or linen suit → natural tones and wheat
- Light grey suit → powdery shades
- Sage green suit → cream and beige dried flowers
The boutonnière should complement the outfit, never dominate it. It brings balance and consistency.
Dried or fresh flowers?
Dried flowers are now highly sought after for a wedding boutonnière.
- Looks flawless all day long
- Light on the lapel
- Long-lasting keepsake
- Timeless bohemian aesthetic
Discover the full range in our dedicated collection of men's wedding boutonnières.
What is the ideal size for a boutonnière?
The ideal size sits between 12 and 14 cm. It should stay proportionate to the jacket's lapel and never look too bulky.
Why choose a handcrafted creation?
A handcrafted boutonnière guarantees a precise balance of volumes and a careful selection of botanicals. Each piece may vary slightly depending on the season, making every creation unique.
Mistakes to avoid
- Choosing a boutonnière that is too large
- Overlooking the colour of the suit
- Failing to harmonise with the bouquet
- Opting for an unreliable fastening
FAQ – Everything you need to know about the wedding boutonnière
The boutonnière is traditionally worn by the groom on the left lapel of the jacket. Depending on the wedding's organisation, the witnesses, the fathers of the bride and groom, or close relatives may also wear a matching version. This creates visual harmony and highlights the key roles in the ceremony.
Yes, and that is one of the great advantages of dried flowers. Unlike fresh flowers, a dried-flower boutonnière can be kept for several years, provided it is shielded from humidity and direct sunlight. It becomes a lasting wedding keepsake.
The boutonnière is fastened to the left lapel of the jacket, usually at the buttonhole provided for that purpose. It is held in place by a secure floral pin placed vertically at the back. For a secure hold, slide the pin through the fabric of the lapel without going all the way through the jacket.
A wedding boutonnière should stay proportionate to the suit. The ideal size is generally between 8 and 12 cm in height. It should be visible without appearing bulky or throwing off the groom's silhouette.
Yes, we recommend creating a subtle echo between the groom's boutonnière and the bride's bouquet. This can be a shared flower, a similar shade or an identical texture. The aim is not to reproduce the bouquet exactly, but to ensure elegant visual coherence.
Absolutely. Dried flowers are not reserved for bohemian or country weddings. A structured, balanced composition can suit an elegant or modern wedding perfectly, while bringing a natural, refined touch.
